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JustNumb 16 Mar 2012 | Posted by brigmon68 | 16 Mar 2012 02:03 AM | |
| My husband announced he wanted a divorce (after 4yrs), over nothing that should be breaking us up. Struggling because he never acknowledged how unhappy he was and now i found he began an affair with a close family friend. For some reason I feel ashamed that my marriage turned out this way. Beyond sad.... | |||
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11 Apr 2012 | Posted by chandsy | 11 Apr 2012 04:01 PM | |
| sounds like a guy that never really spoke about his inner feelings. He must have been holding something in and it finally reached a breaking point. He had to find someone else to act as a crutch. I doubt he would have ended it if he wasn't having that affair. It could have been something so stupid that he never spoke about that got the best of him. It wasn't your fault, he needs to work on himself before he will ever be able to commit. Feeling sad at the end of a divorce is expected, even though it didn't work out it is the passing of something that was supposed to last forever. You will heal... | |||
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25 Apr 2012 | Posted by debo54 | 25 Apr 2012 03:37 PM | |
| AFTER FOUR YEARS OF MARRIAGE THIS BUM ASK YOU FOR A DIVORCE? GAVE HIM THAT DIVORCE AS SOON ASPOSSIBLE DONT WAIST NO TIME THE SOONER THE BETTER. | |||
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16 Aug 2012 | Posted by zoey305 | 16 Aug 2012 02:46 PM | |
| I went throught the same thing. It does get easier and in time you do see some glimpses of light through the fog. You can only do your best with what you have. if he failed to tell you of his feeling, then HE is the one who failed! marriage is not easy and for some reason they think it will get easier with someone else. And for a time it mighrt, but at some point the same forces that worked against your marriage will work against this because until we reconcile ourselves with our own inadequacies, we repeat the same mistakes. | |||
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