|Need some advice 24 Jun 2011 | Posted by tennisgirl12||24 Jun 2011 05:06 PM|
|I have no one to really talk to and I need some advice. I am 28 and the guy is almost 30. I've known this guy for almost 10 years. We met back in 2002 and broke up 3 years later. In that 3 years we were madly in love we were engaged to be married and we were both young and dumb and it just fell apart. Over the past 10 years we have grown up a lot and have remained friends. We have talked several times about getting back together but we were afraid that if it went south again it would ruin our friendship and then we would never talk to eachother again. A month and a half ago I get a text message from him and he says he is dating someone and that he just wants to remain friends. The tuesday after memorial day I get a call from him because he needs to talk, hes upset because he can't get ahold of his girlfriend and she left her kid (from another relationship) with him and he had to call off of work because he couldnt get a hold of her. A week after that he calls me again and says he wants to go have some drinks and talk because his girlfriend broke up with him because she is still in love with her ex (who is a women). Last weekend she tells him that she is pregnant. He tells me and I am absolutly devistated. He is a stand up guy and he will take care of the kid and he wants to work it out with her. Which I commend him for, but I know in the end its not gonna work out and he is going to be devastated. It's his first child. He says he wants to be there everyday for this child and not just a weekend dad. But I feel she is going to hurt him. She is very young only 21. Shes hurt him before. And she wont allow him to talk or see me. He texts me while hes at work so she doesnt know. I love this man with all of my heart. I would move mountants and take a bullet for this man. I was the one that should be married and haveing his kids. What do I do?|
|28 Jun 2011 | Posted by alexieb||28 Jun 2011 02:26 PM|
|Don't you believe you deserve a man who is 100% about you? If this man wanted to be with you he would have made it happen already. You will never be able to go out in the world and meet the REAL "one" until you let go of the fantasy that you and this other guy should be together. Free yourself of all that drama and go live your life and make your own family with a man who is totally about you.
|28 Apr 2012 | Posted by debo54||28 Apr 2012 03:01 AM|
|You are really waisting your valueable time with this man, You are not gething any younger you nead to let go of him and go and get a life.a relationship is about two people having the same feelings for each other.you cant be in a relationship by yourself,|